You’ve probably heard the expression - "The shape you’re in determines the shape you’re in..."
What is the likelihood that with your golden retriever or a couple of nice furry little cats lying on the bed with you...you’re going to be able to sleep in a nice straight line?
Probably nil to none.
The reason is or the rather the trouble is is that, probably quite unconsciously, (does anybody sleep consciously...?) You’re going to sleep in some contorted shape or another all night so as to avoid rolling over onto the dog.
A patient was just in the office this evening complaining about her lower back continuing to bother her. She expressed to me that she always does everything I tell her to do at home to help herself.
Then I asked her about her sleeping position and that's when she revealed to me that she sleeps with her two dogs on the bed and that they really "rule" the bed - she has to twist herself into a prettzle so as to not disturb the dogs.
Here’s an experiment I want you to do to help me make my point:
Lay on your back with your right arm pushed as far under your back as you can reach - maybe reach all the way under your back so you can touch your left hip and now lay that way for a half an hour. Don’t move - just lay that way.
OK, now get up and... how does that arm and shoulder feel NOW!?!?
Now imagine sleeping all twisted up to avoid running into the dog all night and you can now stop wondering why your back hurts in the morning.
Answer: If you can’t keep the pets off of the bed then keep them outside the bed room. Close the door and get used to them laying outside the door whining - they’ll eventually get used to the new rules in time and stop.